{"id":1204,"date":"2010-11-16T01:13:37","date_gmt":"2010-11-16T09:13:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.learningtogetherathome.com\/?p=1204"},"modified":"2010-11-16T01:13:37","modified_gmt":"2010-11-16T09:13:37","slug":"one-year-later","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.learningtogetherathome.com\/?p=1204","title":{"rendered":"One Year Later&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><\/strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.learningtogetherathome.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/Halloween-2010-0181.jpg\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-1207\" title=\"Halloween 2010 018\" src=\"http:\/\/www.learningtogetherathome.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/Halloween-2010-0181-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"461\" height=\"614\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.learningtogetherathome.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/Halloween-2010-0181-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.learningtogetherathome.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/Halloween-2010-0181-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 461px) 100vw, 461px\" \/><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">On November 16, 2009, one year ago today,\u00a0we anxiously waited for our tour bus to crawl through rush hour traffic on its way to the Civil Affairs Office of\u00a0 Guangdong Province.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">We nervously rode the slow elevator upstairs.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">We shed our coats, readied our paperwork, prepped our cameras, held our breath.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">And then there she was.\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">Entering the room timidly from behind a curtain.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">Smile firmly attached to her face.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">My heart stopped.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">I could not catch my breath.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">There she\u00a0 was.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">I pulled her stiffened body towards me and embraced her gently.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">She called us each by name.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">We fumbled over hers.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">She came to us bearing photos, gifts, memories of a life lived.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">We spent many minutes poring over the photos.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">She would chatter away and point with her long slender fingers.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">I think we all fell into shock.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">This was no apparition.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">Here was our girl.<\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">Our daughter.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">Our sister.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">Our granddaughter.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">Her Mother.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">Her Father.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">Her siblings.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">Her grandparents.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">She was so beautiful and intelligent and confident.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">She had so many who had invested in her.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">Who cared about her.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">And suddenly the real little girl was appearing before us.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">The pre-drawn image\u00a0fell away and the reality was there.<\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">And again, it took our breath away.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">The beginning had arrived.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">We love you little Grace Qiao.<\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">And so we need you to know&#8230; <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">We love that you are such a strong young lady.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">We love your direct spirit, your willingness to probe until you understand.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">We love your imaginative artistry, your ability to strive for accuracy and creativity in your play.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">We love that you have a whole pile of people who stand behind your need to grow and love and be loved.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">And nothing, not an ocean nor a fractured language can ever stop these people from caring for you Miss Grace.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">Because we are so blessed to know you and to be known by you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">&#8220;Forever and ever?&#8221;, you say.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">Yes, sweetheart.\u00a0 <\/span><\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">Forever and Ever and Ever and Ever&#8230;..<\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">With our whole hearts we promise.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">Love,<\/span><\/h2>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">Mom &amp; 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